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Saturday, 30 September 2017

Man loses his life trying to save his wife


A Brit crushed to death by 1,300 tonnes of rock in Yosemite National Park was killed trying to save his wife, it has emerged.

Climbing enthusiasts Andy and Lucy Foster were celebrating their first year of marriage with an adventure holiday in California when tragedy struck.

The pair were on a popular hiking trail near the famous El Capitan peak when a piece of rock "the size of an apartment" fellow down the mountain.

Andy was killed and Lucy suffered serious injuries including broken ribs and a punctured lung.

Last night Andy's aunt Gillian Stephens told The Times: "She said: 'Andrew saved my life. He dived on top of me as soon as he could see what was going to happen. He saved my life'."

One of the last photos taken of Mr Foster shows him taking a rest during a climb a day before he died, with Lucy, 28, writing in the caption: "Yosemite has broken Andy. Time for a rest."


Other snaps show him posing happily with two thumbs up in front of El Capitan on the day they arrived, and standing with a pile of gear as the couple - who had just celebrated their one year wedding anniversary - left Heathrow Airport on September 11.

The Fosters were just months away from taking a year-long break from their work and travelling around the Alps in a converted van to climb and ski stunning mountains.

Mr Foster, from Cardiff, was buried when a "sheet" of granite around 40 metres by 20 metres plummeted from a height of 200 metres at the park in California's Sierra Nevada Mountains on Wednesday afternoon.

Mrs Foster was carried from the base of El Capitan and airlifted to hospital by paramedics.


It was believed the pair, carrying their climbing gear, had been scouting out the ascent from a trail when the granite fell and had not yet started scaling the cliff face.

Friends and colleagues remembered Mr Foster, a UK sales rep for the outdoor clothing and gear company Patagonia, as a dedicated climber with an "enormous and infectious" passion for the outdoors, especially mountains.

The Fosters were an extremely adventurous couple, spending much of their free time climbing mountains, skiing in the Alps or taking part in other outdoors activities, including kayaking and spear fishing.

In 2015, he proposed to her at Aiguille du Midi during a trip to Mont Blanc in the French Alps.

Days later wrote how he bought her an engagement wring and she bought him "engagement skis". The couple married in a yurt in August last year.

The couple, who met at university in Cardiff, were preparing to leave their home in South Wales to embark on their next major adventure after Yosemite.

Earlier this month, Mrs Foster posted a Facebook photo of her husband in front of a van as she announced their plans to tour around the Alps.

She wrote: "We're moving out of our lovely house to live in a van for a year and travel around the Alps skiing climbing and being X-treme to the max!"

They had planned to start their adventure after Christmas.
The Fosters kept a blog called Cam and Bear and regularly wrote of their adventures and posted photos from their climbs.

They wrote on the blog: "We are a young married couple who enjoy nothing more than getting out and having adventures in the mountains together.


"We are not extreme athletes and describe ourselves simply as passionate weekend warriors. While our blog is just a log of what we have done we do hope that it will inspire other people to get out and experience the natural world."

Mr Foster also mentioned the couple's plans to travel to Yosemite, writing that he was getting in shape and preparing through climbs in the UK.

He wrote in May: "On a recent wet weekend in the peaks I dusted of the old aid climbing gear and aid soled London Wall at Millstone.

"Haven't aid climbed in over three years and took a bit of a whipper in the process. Need to get back on it for Yosemite trip Im off on in September!"
Mrs Foster also described her training with a climbing group in May, writing: "Yosemite. September. 3 weeks. A rock climbers dream!!"

She added: "I realised Andy didn’t care about seconding easier routes, he actually quite likes the rest! And he has enjoyed seeing me regain my confidence and we have big dreams for multi-pitches in Yosemite and the Alps."

Mr Foster had plenty of experience climbing and had scaled rocks and cliffs in Yosemite a number of times before. He had posted photos online from climbs in the park 2009 and 2011.

In recent years he had worked for US-based Patagonia, where his colleagues in Europe were devastated after learning of his death.

Alex Beasley, manager of the firm's operations in UK and Ireland, said: "It is with much sadness that we mourn the loss of our dear friend and colleague Andrew Foster, who was killed in a tragic accident in Yosemite.

"Andy was a sales representative working in our UK team and had been with the business for five years.

"He was a much-loved member of our team and a passionate climber, mountaineer and skier who loved being in the outdoors.

"Our thoughts and condolences are with his wife Lucy and their families. We offer them our deepest sympathies."

Before joining Patagonia Mr Foster had worked for the outdoor retailer Up and Under, in Cardiff, for five years up to 2010.

The company said in a statement: "Andy Foster was an inspirational member of the Up and Under family. He was a highly regarded member of staff for five years, before he took a job with Patagonia.

"He remained a dedicated friend of Up and Under, and was regularly to be found in the store.

"His passion for the outdoors, and mountains in particular, was enormous and infectious. Andy and Lucy’s intentions upon returning from Yosemite were, with the help of Andy’s father, to covert a van into a motor home to enable them to explore the European Alps for the next twelve months.

"It was then our hope that Andy would return to Up and Under in a part time consultative role, whilst he also chased other ambitions.

"Andy was highly respected, loved and his loss will be sorely felt by us all. Our thoughts are with Lucy and his family."

Up and Under supported the couple's latest adventures and had published individual profiles of them on its website.

Mr Foster's profile listed his nickname as "Bad" and said he started climbing at a young age, competing in youth competitions.

He joined the Cardiff University Mountaineering Club (CUMC) while he was a student there, and became a prolific climber who conquered challenging peaks.

He took trips to Yosemite for "big walling adventures" and had lost count of the number of times he had visited the Alps.

Mrs Foster's profile describes her as a "mountain lover" and "keen trail runner" whose passion for climbing began when she joined CUMC.

Mr Foster's death is the first fatality from a rock fall in Yosemite in four years when another climber was killed, according to the parks service.

Prior to that, the last climber to die from a similar accident was in 1999.


Park ranger Scott Gediman said: "With all the craziness I don't exactly know where they were going but chances are they were going up.

"From what I understand they were buried under rock... They were crushed by falling rocks."

They are the only people known to have been injured in the rock fall. Rescuers carried out a search and later said everyone had been accounted for.

Several teams of climbers were in the area when the tragedy happened.


Mike Kane, who witnessed the rock fall, wrote on Twitter that it was "very loud" and it was a "miracle more (were) not hurt".

Mr Gediman said seven rockfalls occurred during a four-hour span above the base of the famous monolith. There are usually around 80 a year in the park.


One man referred to the rock fall as being the "size of an apartment" and the biggest in memory.

A Foreign Office spokesman said: "We are in contact with the local authorities and providing assistance to both families at this very difficult time."

Meanwhile, a second rockfall at the site on Thursday left one person injured who was airlifted to hospital.

El Capitan, one of Yosemite’s best-known landmarks, is considered a world-class challenge for rock climbers.

Source: Mirror

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Thursday, 28 September 2017

Fifty Year Old Woman Who Has Never Opened The ''Cookie Jar'' Talks About It With Wendy Williams...


It’s not every day that you hear about a 50-year-old virgin, but one such woman self-identified as exactly that during a recent airing of The Wendy Williams Show.

“I am a 50-year-old virgin and I’m proud of it,” said Evette, shocking the host and her entire studio audience.

“I grew up in a very strict household,” explained the Hopkinsville, Kentucky resident with a smile. “I get all the time that I’m crazy to wait until I’m married to have sex.”

In today’s society, where premarital sex is viewed as par for the course, lots of people see Evette as a certifiable nut job for her stance. Keeping the command of 1 Corinthians 6:18 to “flee fornication,” is believed to be unrealistic.

But not for Evette.

She has upheld her faith values, but not without harsh criticism. Thus, she wanted to know, “How do I get the haters off my back?”

Wendy Williams, 53, appeared genuinely caught off guard. Not quite knowing how to respond, the gossip queen fired off a few questions: Are you dating now? Are you in love? Have you ever fooled around?

Evette told Wendy, she isn’t dating; she was in love before, but not now; and she has never done anything beyond kissing.
“To God be the glory,” the abstinent woman added.

“I’m not judging because I appreciate the ‘Christianness’ of it all,” Wendy told her. But as a girlfriend, I’m judging.”

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Sunday, 24 September 2017

Baby with half a heart survives after mum defied doctors advice over abortion


A baby beat the odds to survive even after doctors advised that it would be best to abort her because she was discovered to have just half a heart.

Lisa Ambler, 32, says she was repeatedly told to terminate her pregnancy after unborn daughter Lacey-Janet was discovered to have an issue with her heart. But Lisa, who has cysts on her ovaries which make it difficult to conceive, was determined to go ahead.


Almost immediately after the baby was born, she stopped breathing in her mother's arms and had an eight-hour operation within the first two weeks. Baby Lacey-Janet had a rare condition where the left lower pumping chamber of the heart does not develop properly. Fortunately, she pulled through and will now be able to lead as normal a life as possible.

Lisa said: "It amazes me how she even made it through the pregnancy. When we were told about the problems with Lacey-Janet’s heart we were told to abort but for me it was all a big dream. They kept saying that she wasn’t going to live long but we were never going to abort her."

Lisa, who lives in Hull with husband Michael, added: "She will need heart care for the rest of her life. But after seeing what she has already been through as a tiny baby I am confident she is only going to get stronger."

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Saturday, 23 September 2017

KYLIE JENNER IS EXPECTING A CHILD WITH BOYFRIEND TRAVIS SCOTT


According to TMZ, the 20-year-old reality TV star started telling friends earlier this month about the pregnancy at the Day N Night Fest in Anaheim.


Sources have apparently also told the site Travis Scott has been spreading the word, and even told friends they’re having a girl together.

The pair have been together since April this year, after Kylie split from her boyfriend Tyga in the same month.


A source also has apparently confirmed the pregnancy to People and stated a due date of February, saying: ‘They started telling friends a few weeks ago.
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‘The family has known for quite some time. She is REALLY excited and so is Travis.’

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Tuesday, 9 May 2017

Exposed: Woman exposed for luring another woman's husband (photos)


In a popular social media group where men and women post their things some explicitly adult (21+) in nature, a lady was provoked by another woman and so decided to post this. Check this after the cut...

"These woman want to ruin my marriage,she stole my hubby from me n naskia akaenda dubai,now my hubby is very crazy thinking about her, yesterday I stole his mobile phone n got their chat on Wasapu,I can't bliv my hubby is blinded by thiz single matha,they r planning to open business n my hubby is the one sending her money anunue vitu then atume na cargo,he also promised her a plot,My fellow married women help me put thiz woman to her fellow single mothers,it's there that she belongs,her fb name is Temblyn Tembly.,,ID name Josphine Cherubet, amekura pesa za mzee wangu mingi Sana through Mpesa...mm ni wa kabete ata Kama ni Zanzibar ntafika juu yako."


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Exposed: Wife bumbs into her husband's phone and finds a compromising whatsapp chat of him and a side chik (photos)

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Are you in love with an aromantic?

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You have heard about asexuals - people who do not show interest in sex or sexual relationship. Experts say asexuality can be described as an orientation in its own right. There are aromantics as well. Broadly speaking, aromantics are not too keen on having romantic relationships. They can be defying or going against the grain in an over-sexualised or romance-obsessed society. Sometimes it may not be immediately evident that a person is an aromantic. Again, there can be avowed aromantics as well. So, what if you are in love with an aromantic person? How would you know? Here are some signs:

You feel you are getting friendzoned in a way
Maybe the object of your desire is an aromantic. He'd rather have you as his best friend. In other words, he may have deep feelings for you but it may not pertain to conventional romantic love.

He wishes to spend more time with others

Do you feel he's more comfortable hanging out with you together with close friends or family? Does he focus more on his friends and not on going for long romantic escapades with you? It doesn't mean he doesn't care for you - he's just not capable of romantic gestures as they don't interest him in any way.

Non-romantic discussions

He may be more comfortable discussing books, politics, career and any other issue that is not even remotely connected with romantic love. And he is also likely to convince you that romance is not the be-all and end-all of life.

He's fine being solitary
Not because he is depressed or shy. You may feel that he can enjoy being on his own and can make you feel that he doesn't quite need your company.

Doesn't like intimacy

He may show a general disregard for physical intimacy. Stop expecting PDA or any other physical expression of love. He may just wish to maintain a platonic relationship.
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Monday, 8 May 2017

5 signs you are dating a control freak

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In the initial days of a relationship, when your guy orders for you, wards off creepy guys and exercises a certain amount of right on you, it feels nice, right? These things might make you feel cared for, but there’s a thin line between wanting what is best for you and deciding what is best for you. You need to be able to tell if he begins to cross that line. Watching out for these signs could help you with that.
 
He criticises everything you do: Taking suggestions and advice from him is different from having him tell you what to do or how to do it ‘the right way’. Now, he might have good intentions and want you to do better in life, or he might simply want to tweak you to suit his needs and preferences. Look for disappointment and condescension in his tone, and authority in his approach.

He tells you what to do with your body:
He might comment on what or how much you eat, decide whether or not you cut your hair, make you feel guilty about not losing weight or be obsessed with how much you are taking care of your skin and appearance overall.

He doesn’t like your friends:
Controlling men have a way of isolating women from their friends. He might refuse to accompany you on group outings or might not be interested in meeting your friends. He demands to know where and with whom you are at all times and is ready to bad-mouth your friends at every given opportunity. You might not realise it but he is slowly cutting you off from them.

He doesn’t support your interests:
If the person you are dating is insecure and controlling, he is not going to encourage or be interested in any new growth and development in your life unless it is for him or helps him in some way.

He doesn’t trust you:
He doesn’t show confidence in your ability to carry out simple tasks and must either do it himself, or direct you while you do it. He also checks your phone regularly or needs to know who you talk to and what the conversations are about.
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Sunday, 7 May 2017

Quiz: What’s your ideal sex position?

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Do you like to be the one in control, or would you rather give in to your partner? Do you go at it spontaneously, or do you prefer flowers, wine and putting on a show? Your sex habits (and this quiz!) can help you figure out which is the perfect sex position for you. So without further ado, go ahead and answer these fun questions.

What’s your favourite place to have sex?
A. Are you serious? Anywhere!
B. The car. I get to really squish against my man that way.
C. My queen-sized bed. It’s very comfy, so…

Who’s your spirit animal?
A. A horse. Strong, agile and sensual.
B. A lion. Proud and wild.
C. A rabbit! Cute and cuddly.

What’s your go-to sexy song?
A. Sex On Fire by Kings Of Leon.
B. Video Phone by Queen Bey.
C. Work From Home by Fifth Harmony.

What’s your favourite sex accessory?
A. I can work with anything. And I mean anything.
B. Give me a pair of handcuffs and I’m good to go.
C. I just like silk sheets and scented candles. Nothing OTT for me.

Mostly As: Anything goes where you’re concerned. You’re a true-blue erotic adventurer and you’d rather not stick to routine when it comes to having a sexy-time. You don’t have an ideal sex position; but no matter whichever one you try, you make sure you make the most of it.

Mostly Bs: Cowgirl is the best position for you because you like to control the pace and rhythm of your lovemaking. You’re proud of your abilities of showing your guy a good time and what better way to do that than being on top?

Mostly Cs: You’re more of a shy lover and you’d rather wait for your partner to make the first move. Even then, missionary or doggy style are what you prefer because these positions let you relax and just have a good time. However, this doesn’t mean you’re dull and can have amazing sex without trying out anything crazy.
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Saturday, 6 May 2017

Are you sexually confident?

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This is the 21st century, and women have started to take the lead in sex. As social commentators never fail to point out, sexual confidence in women is an empowering and emancipating concept. Among other things, sexual confidence can lead to fantastic relationships. So don't hold back and check the signs that show that you are indeed a sexually confident woman:

Comfortable with your own body

A sexually confident woman will be happy with the way she looks. She would be highly comfortable with her body type and won't chase impossible body standards.

Orgasms matter to you
A sexually confident woman will not be fine with not having orgasms. Her own pleasure will be as important as her partner's.

You disregard labels
There's no denying the fact that some stereotypes still exist when it comes to a woman's sexuality. But a sexually confident woman wouldn't worry about labels and would love to turn some stereotypes on their heads.

Won't be afraid to say 'no'

A sexually confident woman will have her own preferences and won't be afraid to reject any part of sex she is not comfortable with. But at the same time she wouldn't mind a little adventure in bed!

Can frankly discuss sex

A sexually confident woman won't shy away from telling her partner what she likes and what she doesn't like about sex.
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Don’t let your relationship make you a bad friend

You might have been the one who hated losing a friend to her new relationship, but when your great love came to sweep you off your feet, you forgot how it felt to be on the other side and are committing the same mistakes. These are a few ways to ensure that you aren’t too busy being in a great relationship to be a good friend:


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Don’t brag: Why shouldn’t you brag about your happiness? They are your friends and they should be happy for you! Yes, of course they should, but not to the point of being bored. Make sure you have other things to talk about as well. Save the endless pictures and stories for your grandchildren.

Don’t give advice: Something that generally happens when you’re in a great relationship is that you believe that you are now enlightened about love and relationships and set out to give unsolicited advice. Dole out advice only when someone asks for it and sound like a friend—not like an expert on the subject.

Don’t bring him along everywhere: It might be fun to be glued together all the time, but the equation of your friends with you is special too and they deserve time solely with you. At the same time, you need to enjoy the part of you that they bring out as well. So avoid bringing him along unless he is invited.

Don’t disappear: This can be really tricky in the early stages of new bliss. Your time with your partner is so full of happiness that it might become the blanket you crawl into. It’s something that happens to the best of us. Try not to cancel, however, on plans with your friends. Give them time and don’t disappear on them. They were there for you before this relationship and they will be there during (or after).

Don’t judge: If your friends are meeting people you would never consider dating, or getting stuck in bad relationships, don’t judge them simply because your life looks better now. Be there for them, listen and do your best to understand. Don’t let judgment or sympathy replace empathy.
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Friday, 5 May 2017

5 signs you and your partner share great chemistry

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Sexual chemistry is vital for a healthy relationship. It has the power to actually make or break relationships. Here are 5 signs that you share great sexual chemistry with your partner.

You know how to communicate: The rules for sexual communication are different with every couple. Some prefer to use their words in bed, others prefer to keep quiet and let their gaze do the talking. And you’re very aware of what works for each other.

You’re open to experimentation: You trust your partner, and he trusts you. And you’re open and comfortable with each other. You don’t feel shy or awkward about sharing your fantasies with him, and vice-versa. And both of you know that you can stop the other even in the middle of the act without feeling weird in case you don’t like something.
The sex never feels like a chore: It is always exciting, or even if you’ve fallen into a routine, it doesn’t feel like a bad thing. You’re just so comfortable with each other that your sex life always feels natural, thrilling and great.

You can talk to one another about sex: Whether it’s before the act or after, or even during, you know that you can always talk about it to one another. It doesn’t make you cringe or make you awkward.

You make each other feel wanted: Your partner makes you feel confident and sexy, and you know that he feels the same way about you. You make efforts to turn each other on, not because you have to, but because you genuinely want to.
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Wednesday, 3 May 2017

Police Officer And His Female Companion Die While 'Having Sex' In A Moving Car (PHOTOS)


A police officer and his female companion died from injuries they sustained while allegedly having sex in a moving vehicle ... The policeman, whose identity was given as Constable Ramon Stephens, attached to the Motorized Patrol Unitn alongside the woman identified as Kodian – Kody, died from
injuries they sustained in the tragic accident.


According to reports, the two dead victims were found naked.

Eyewitnesses said the car was travelling at a very high speed and lost control, probably at the climax of the sex.


The incident happened in the western parts of the Island, along the North-South link of Highway 2000, Jamaica.


Meanwhile, the Road Safety Unit has denied sexual act was the cause of the fatal crash.


Director of the unit in the Ministry of Transport, Kanute Hare told The Jamaican Star that despite calls on the subject on sexual intercourse and suggestive photographs, the evidence on the ground doesn’t give latitude to make those statements at all.


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U.S. top court rejects 'gay conversion' therapy


The U.S. Supreme Court on Monday declined to change California's ban on "gay conversion" therapy aimed at turning youths under age 18 away from homosexuality, rejecting a Christian minister's challenge to the law which he said violates religious rights. The justices, rejected a challenge to the 2012 law for the second time in three years, let stand a lower court's ruling that it was constitutional and neither impinged upon free exercise of religion nor impacted the activities of clergy members.

The law prohibits state-licensed mental health counselors, including psychologists and social workers, from offering therapy to change sexual orientation in minors.

The Supreme Court in 2014 refused to review the law after an appeals court rejected claims that the ban infringed on free speech rights under U.S. Constitution's the First Amendment.
California outlawed gay conversion therapy in 2012, calling it ineffective and harmful.

New Jersey, Illinois, Oregon, Vermont, New Mexico and the District of Columbia have similar laws on the books, according to the Human Rights Campaign, an advocacy group for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people.

Gay conversion therapy methods range from counseling, hypnosis and dating-skill training to aversive techniques that induce pain or electric shocks in response to same-sex erotic images, according to California officials.

Such treatments come from a belief that homosexuality is a mental illness.
Lead plaintiff Donald Welch, an ordained minister and licensed family therapist, oversees counseling at Skyline Wesleyan Church, an evangelical Christian church in the San Diego area that believes sexuality belongs only in a marriage between a man and a woman.

Welch, along with a Catholic psychiatrist and a man who underwent conversion therapy and now aspires to perform it on others, sued the state claiming the law to ban gay conversion therapy is unconstitutional.

Source: Reuters.

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Wednesday, 26 April 2017

4 things you should do after sex

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Many of us don’t give it any thought, but our vagina needs special care after sex. We’ve rounded up four things that you should avoid doing post-sex, in order to keep your lady parts healthy and happy.


Forget peeing after sex
This is something almost every woman forgets to do. Peeing right after sex helps get rid of bacteria before it can travel to the bladder. Those pesky UTIs you keep having? You can totally avoid those if you peed after sex.

Take a soapy shower
It’s not uncommon to feel the need to clean up after sex, but using soap down there right then can lead to vaginal irritation and dryness. This is because your skin is particularly tender and delicate immediately after sex and will react differently to the harsh chemicals in the soap.

Use a wet wipe down there
Never use wet wipes on your lady parts, especially if your skin is sensitive to chemicals, oils, scents or glycerine. Using a wet wipe after sex can cause irritation, causing your skin to swell, itch, and become tender.

Sleep in your lingerie
In most cases, your sexy lingerie is made of fabrics like rayon, polyester and rayon. These fabrics don’t get along well with your post-sex warm, damp body. Synthetic fabrics tend to trap moisture and can cause yeast infections. So, change into some clean clothes or just go nude when you sleep.
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Saturday, 1 April 2017

I need a guy who can lick me and my anus for at least 24hrs before sex -Facebook lady writes


Africans are no longer shy to disclose what they want during sex, and one of such people is a thick Ghanaian Facebook user, Maame Akua Pretty Queen. According to her, she needs a guys who can lick very well, as well as her anus for at least 24 hours before sex.

The post which was shared on Facebook by the lady, has seen mixed reactions from her followers, as some are willing to do it. Here's the trending post on Facebook

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Thursday, 23 March 2017

Man got pregnant and gave birth to his daughter because his wife could not get pregnant


A while back the news of a pregnant man who eventually gave birth to his child made headlines. The man has now revealed how he carried and gave birth to his daughter and the reason he did that.


Chris Rehs-Dupin, 33, made for a unique sight when he sported beards and a protruding belly that could not simply be explained off as a beer belly.

He carried the pregnancy to term, gave birth and even breastfed her and his reason for going through all that is because his wife could not fall pregnant.

Chris had been born a female, Christina. He then met his wife Amy, 33, when they were both in their 20s and working at a children's summer camp and they fell in love immediately. They got into a civil partnership in October 2012 and legally married in 2013 then decided they wanted a family. The plan was for Amy to be the biological mother but after five attempts of intrauterine insemination failed, Chris, who was at the time a pre-op transgender, volunteered to carry their child.


After five rounds of IUI treatment using sperm from an anonymous donor and a miscarriage, he finally gave birth naturally on December 20, 2014, to a girl named Hayden.

Chris, who now runs children’s summer camps, explained how his life unfolded to bring him to the point of deciding to have a baby even after identifying as male and how his gender was not an issue for his wife:

“When I went to university in 2007, I knew I wasn’t a woman and it was an easy realisation to make. I didn’t want to take hormones, because I was happy with who I was and who I was presenting myself as, but I have always been very open with Amy.”

Amy added to Chris' explanation:

“By the time I met him, I knew the issue of his gender was at the forefront of his mind. And, eventually, he became more masculine and lived as a man. Chris was my soul mate. I loved everything about him. It didn’t matter what he looked like.”
Speaking on their unusual arrangement, Amy said: "There was no question who would carry the baby. I couldn’t wait to be pregnant."
But things didn't work out as hoped and they improvised.
"We went through a lot of fertility treatments, until we finally reached a point where we needed to make a decision as to whether we were going to do more medical intervention or if we were going to switch bodies," Amy said. “We were fortunate enough to have two uteruses. So, after a lot of thought and emotion and difficulties we switched to Chris.”

Hormones released during the pregnancy made Chris' breast to begin growing again after years of binding them flat and he did not like that bit. Amy tried to breastfeed after the baby was born by taking drugs that will stimulate her body into producing breast milk but the milk was not sufficient so, eventually, Chris had to breastfeed.

Being pregnant made Chris more certain than ever that he wanted to complete his transition to become a man. He also wanted to fully transition so as to be an example to his daughter by letting her know she shouldn't be afraid to be who she is.

“I knew it would make me a better and a happier person, a whole person, to start a medical transition. When my daughter came I knew I didn’t want her to be afraid of who she is and it’s important for me to model that behaviour,” he said.

Having Hayden made Amy even more determined to carry a baby herself so since there was no medical reason why Amy could not conceive, they decided to try again. In January 2016 Chris started his medical transition and Amy became pregnant in the same month, on her first attempt. She finally gave birth to another child, Milo, via caesarean section.

“When I was the pregnant one, because I had a husband who had been there before, it was different. He understood what I was going through, what I was feeling. It was a benefit that not a lot of women have,” Amy said.

Chris will love to have another child and does not rule out the possibility of carrying it himself. Amy, on her part, is simply happy with the family they have and is pleased that Chris is in a good place and feels happy in his skin.

“We would love to have a third child. I hope to have breast reconstruction surgery, but will not have a bottom surgery, or have my ovaries removed, so I haven’t ruled out carrying it. We’ll have to fight over it this time," Chris said.

“We’ve been on an incredible journey as a family, but we have two amazing kids and Chris is finally happy in his own body,” Amy added.

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Tuesday, 21 February 2017

Want to reach humanity? Be open to God's grace, Pope says


The Christian mission today means facing new challenges with simplicity, holiness, and openness to God, Pope Francis told an audience with the Marian Fathers on Saturday.

“Many still await knowledge of Jesus, the sole Redeemer of man, and many situations of injustice and moral and material hardship challenge believers,” the Pope said Feb. 18. “Such an urgent mission requires conversion at personal and community levels. Only hearts that are fully open to the action of grace are able to interpret the signs of the times and to hear the calls of humanity in need of hope and peace.”

The Pope told the Marian Fathers that their apostolate is a “vast field” constituted by “the urgent need” to bear witness to the gospel before everyone without distinctions.

The Pope received members of the Congregation of the Marian Fathers of the Immaculate Conception on Saturday morning in the Vatican’s Consistory Hall. The congregation, present in 20 countries, is holding its general chapter in Rome from Feb. 5-25.

The Pope encouraged their reflections to be done in fidelity with their founder’s charism and their spiritual heritage while also having “a heart and mind open to the new needs of the people.”

“It is true, we must go ahead towards the new needs, the new challenges, but remember: we cannot go ahead without memory,” Pope Francis said. “It is a continual tension. If I want to go ahead without memory of the past, of the history of the founders, the great figures and also the sins of the congregation, I cannot do so.”

The Marian Fathers was founded by St. Stanislaus of Jesus and Mary in Poland in 1673. He was canonized in 2016.

Pope Francis told the congregation’s members that their service to God’s word is “witness to the Risen Christ, whom you have met on your journey and whom, with your style of life, you are called to take wherever the Church sends you.”

“Christian witness also requires commitment to and with the poor, a commitment that has characterized your Institute since the beginning,” the Pope continued. “I encourage you to keep alive this tradition of service to the poor and humble, through the proclamation of the Gospel with language understandable to them, with works of mercy and prayer for the souls of the departed.”

The Pope stressed the importance of simplicity as a spiritual foundation.

“We are not princes, sons of princes or counts or barons: we are simple people, of the people. And for this reason we draw close with this simplicity to the simple people and those who suffer the most: the sick, children, the abandoned elderly, the poor … all of them,” he said. “And this poverty is at the heart of the Gospel: it is the poverty of Jesus, not sociological poverty, but that of Jesus.”

Pope Francis invoked the example of Blessed George Matulaitis, a member of the congregation who became Bishop of Vilnius in Lithuania. He was beatified in 1987.

The Pope praised his writings for showing “the total dedication to the Church and to man.” He praised the congregation’s initiatives to spread its charism to poor countries, especially those in Africa and Asia.

“The great challenge of enculturation requires that today you proclaim the Good News using languages and methods comprehensible to the men of our time, involved in processes of rapid social and cultural change,” the Pope said.

The pontiff asked the Marian Fathers to show courage in their service to Jesus Christ and the Church. He said that God can draw great things out of smallness and unworthiness.

“Our smallness is in fact the seed, that then germinates, grows; the Lord waters it, and in this way it goes ahead,” the Pope said. “But the sense of smallness is that first impulse towards trust in the power of God. Go, go ahead on this road.”

Pope Francis prayed for the congregation’s journey of faith and growth.

-Catholic News

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Sunday, 19 February 2017

Ladies and Gentlemen meet the sexiest dog that ever liveth (photos)


Who did this to this dog? Lol. See another photo after the cut...

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Saturday, 18 February 2017

Valentine! See Photo That Has Got A lot Of People Talking


This photo has been making people tear up.

Despite the wall not being plastered, and abviously not the best social media approved scene for proposal, he made do with what he had to propose to his girl. He also put in effects to make the room look beautiful.

You can imagine what he would do if he had money. Sometimes loveis enough.
Congratulations to the lovely couple and happy valentine’s to you all.

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