Happy to be self-absorbed
After the honeymoon phase, we normally take things for granted in our relationships. A common mistake is getting too self-absorbed. Don't make the mistake of getting caught up in your own work or personal issues thereby paying little heed to what your partner can be going through. So focus less on 'I' and more on 'you' and 'us'.
Money can never be an issue
Don't assume this. If both of you are working, experts advise working out a joint financial strategy well in advance. They also suggest getting a clear idea about spending and investing habits of each other. There should be sufficient understanding between partners regarding money matters.
Love, and not sex, matters the most
Ideally, yes. But if sexual attraction is on the wane, your relationship can suffer. Experts warn against taking sex as a routine affair. Make sure that getting physical in your relationship doesn't become just a chore.
He should like all my friends
Not always. If you think that your partner won't really have a problem if you hang out with them all the time or confide in them details about your relationship, think again. Your partner may value privacy above everything, so make sure you don't have too many intrusive friends and relatives.
There should be gifts/candle lit dinners for every occasion
Experts say that over romanticising can land you in trouble. Don't expect a fairy tale romance all the way, where you would get all the attention from your Prince Charming. Keep it real.
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