4 critical things you MUST ask before you go on a sex toy hunt

Buying your first sex toy is as big a sexual achievement as any. And browsing through all the fancy vibrators and cuffs and kinky rings is bound to leave you feeling intimidated and highly confused. Before you hit the 'buy now' button and stock your sex toy goodie bag, do ask yourself these questions:


What sensations turn you on the most?
Does clitoral stimulation do it for you? Or is it the locating of the G-spot that sends you over the edge? Different sex toys exist for your preferred self-pleasuring technique. Bullet vibrators will soon become your clit's best friend, while vibes that come with a curved tip are best for working that G-spot.

What material is safe to use down there?
You know how you prefer cotton-only clothes because the material suits your skin the best? When it comes to inserting objects into your lady parts, it is imperative you make sure that they are made of vagina-friendly materials. Jelly rubber material is an absolute no-no due to the phthalates it contains. Silicone on the other hand is the preferred material since it is easy to clean and is a powerful transmitter too.

Let's make some noise?
Or not. You really do not want to go through the awkwardness of having your neighbours complain that they hear a chainsaw-ripping noise emanating from your room every night. Silicone-based toys are your best bet in this department too. Run a quick test by placing it on the tip of your nose or your hand and get, set, go!

Do I like the way it looks? 
A sex toy loses its purpose if you are scared by the mere look of it. The appearance of the toy needs to get you ticklish already. If you aren't comfortable with conspicuous toys, opt for discrete ones such as neckpiece vibrators, ring-shaped oral sex simulators, etc.